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A Crash Course in Ethical, Intuitive and Effective Spellwork

May 30, 2019

 

 

 Many people turn to spellwork to harness a sense of control over their lives.

 

Others use spells to persuade or intuit the actions of others.

 

Those who didn’t grow up around esoteric practices or in new age households often seek spellworkers (including tarot readers) as a last resort.

 

I’ve had clients who have confided in me that they’ve spent thousands of dollars for spells that were more nefarious than helpful.

 

These con-artists give spellworkers a terrible rap and for good reason. The shame and guilt that comes with being duped on this level is so tragic that many people turn away from the esoteric arts entirely.

 

When practiced ethically, spellwork is an intensely personal practice where you have the liberty to explore possibilities, fantasize about your most ideal circumstances, and hold space where the seemingly impossible can come true.

 

You can use materials you already have on hand like flowers, tea, or salt.

 

Some people like to use crystals, florida water, or pre-written spells from books or online.

 

Sage bundles and palo santo sticks are also very popular right now but make sure what you’re buying is ethically sourced meaning that the environment and people who create these products are treated kindly. And the same can be said for crystals.

 

To start, create your own spells and use objects that carry a symbolism for you.

 

For teenage me, these resources included my journal, my tarot cards (Hanson-Roberts to start) and crystals and that slowly evolved into candles, bones, herbs, feathers, and a slew of other witchy goodies given to me by friends, found in thrift stores or art markets that I participated in. I plan on creating another blog post soon on materials specifically.

 

Having friends who are also spellworkers creates a sense of community around your practice and you may find that people start to suggest certain herbs or materials that have worked for them when you start to talk more about your personal practice.

 

Put simply, spellwork is the act of setting an intention then creating a symbolic action. It can be done on your own, with another person, or in a group. You take time to set an intention, perform the symbolic action, then give it up to the universe.

 

Here’s a simple spell framework that’s kind of like submitting a job application:

 

You say to the employer (in this case, the universe)

 

1. Who you are, stating your full name.

 

2. What you want.

 

3. Why you are grateful for this new opportunity.

 

Then you ask circumstance to meet you halfway in your projected outcome and see what happens next. If nothing happens from this spell, try doing it repeatedly. This is when your spell becomes your personal ritual, something that you can return to.

 

Sometimes creating a spell then doing a meditation will help you uncover next steps to take, people to talk to, subjects to study, books to read, and other guidance pertaining to your personal goals and aspirations.

 

Spellwork is the radical process of placing faith in yourself to do what you know you have to do in order to reach a goal or an ideal self and it’s a self-development practice that’s pretty out there and isn’t for everyone.

 

But when you boil it down, it’s psychological.

 

Working with magic and feeling its effects has no explanation beyond the power of suggestion and intention setting, which most people can agree are valid scientific concepts whether they believe in (or have personally experienced) metaphysical phenomena or not.

 

You cast a spell and expect an outcome, even if that outcome is internal. Sometimes after our rituals we find that the solution was in us all along and then we can determine a strategy moving forward in creating our ideal career, relationship, family, home, lifestyle, etc..

 

When we look for the outcomes caused by our actions we almost always find them.

 

You set a hypothesis, test it out, and when it works as planned -- or close enough -- that’s when you realize how much control you really have over the world -- or how little. In this way, we unknowingly cast spells every single day, just by making a cup of coffee in the morning to wake us up, or brushing our teeth to keep our mouths healthy. What fraction of your day is spent completing tasks that have a perceived outcome?

 

Sometimes that cup of coffee in the morning does not wake us up in the morning. Like spellwork sometimes it ain’t that simple, but we do our best.

 

Spellwork can be a powerfully humbling practice in that sense -- it doesn’t always work, and it shouldn’t, but when it does, it’s immensely gratifying.

 

With the Abraham Hicks Law of Attraction Theory (1981), spellwork was simplified, boiled down to a thought process: you think it, you manifest it. Esther and Jerry Hicks, the authors of this theory, laid out a series of techniques through multiple books on how to train your brain to see the positive side of almost any situation, expecting abundance no matter what.

 

My issue with the concept is that it doesn’t account for circumstances that you are unable to change. It has a certain americana philosophy a fake-it-till-you-make-it manifesto that’s easy to buy into, but creating an ideal life is much much more complicated than just thinking positively and taking what you need. Especially for those who are compassionate activists, we can’t simply take what we need and block out everything else.

 

We are affected by circumstances, our environment, other people, time, and countless other factors, including how the people around us are affected and sometimes we don’t even notice how much others' feelings affect us. Aye!

 

But sometimes it's us.

 

We like to be the drivers of our bodies and minds, but sometimes we break down and need repairs, or need parts replaced. We carry shame for not feeling, looking, acting perfect. We carry trauma from earlier in our lives, and sometimes it’s pressingly current. Often we are in pain and it takes guts, not positive thinking, to recognize it, to face it and move through it in a constructive way, in a process that’s becoming increasingly referred to as shadow work, which has roots in Jungian or analytical psychology.

 

We can’t simply make the magical thinking and watch injustices fix themselves, especially when we see ourselves as realists.

 

It’s not all light and positivity, there’s a whole lot of shit out there, and we are affected by it every day. And besides, we love our stories, as we should.

 

Injustices are here so that we can find justice in the middle of it. This is of great importance and strength to us. To completely wipe out the past to focus on the present would be absurd. Our singular and collective pasts define us in ways that informs the present and how we create now and in the future.

 

So, if you aren’t feeling positive all of the time, good.

 

Accepting a range of emotions and how they affect us and the ways we are changed and morphed by our environments is healthy. What spellwork offers is a framework for creative problem solving, strategic yet spotaneous living, and a little bit of faith.

 

Intuitive spell work and intention setting through ritual acts like tarot can help us feel more centered, grounded and hopeful in a way that simply thinking and acting sometimes can’t, especially when we have so many thoughts bouncing around in our brains.

 

The world is noisier than ever before, thanks to blogs like these, social media, advertisements, memes, and the vastness of the digital landscape, so spellwork offers time just for you and your thoughts and your intentions.

 

When we take time to dig into our creativity through ritual, we commune with endless potential and possibility, and find a point, a direction to move us forward.

 

Some traditional spell workers choose to summon demons, archangels, spirits, personalities.

 

For some, this is purely symbolic and adds heightened meaning. Artists and performers channel all the time, and some may argue that you have to in order to create something truly spectacular. There’s so much faith in creating something new or brave. Spellwork can be the precursor to the creative action. It sets the mood for intuitive and creative control.

 

We seek to connect with something greater than ourselves but often can’t during the creation process and when that happens we create art that doesn't come intrinsically, but by the opinions of others.

 

So we have to create spells that are private and just for us, and sometimes they are channeled through a divine personality, but they can also just come from us. Many seek out an otherness for added courage through voices of direction and inspiration are what some people call “spirit guides”.

 

Like many musicians create bands, spellworkers create covens.

 

Most of us seek connection with others, desiring a community that sustains our creativity as part of our growth. If we didn’t crave community, we wouldn’t seek out editors. We wouldn’t ask for input from our mentors or feedback from our peers. Most spellworkers start out creating spells on their own or in the family, then join covens (some more formal than others) or hold ceremonies at the full moon.

 

We crave a community and a greater involvement spiritually, socially, romantically, and spellwork can allow for that while we are in the creative process because we crave meaning. We want our lives to be tied up in others and we seek out ways so that we will be remembered and that’s part of the spellwork lineage and community. We say, “This is my trick. This is how I’ve found it useful. Try it for yourself and if you find it useful, great. But here’s my trick. See if it works for you.” Like any artist with a style. Like any scholar with a theory.

 

I personally turned to spellwork to focus on the unexplained and unforseen, thus making my life more into a game, an experiential play as you go take on magic and magical circumstances, with a lot of faith in experimentation and spell work as a concept for heightened creation. This started when I was really young, playing witch with my sister, but everyone comes to esoteric practices in their own unique way.

 

Are you a spellworker? Here’s a quick and dirty checklist.

 

Do you find yourself in dangerous circumstances often, despite leading the most healthy life you know how?

 

Have you considered yourself as a catalyst for people on the verge of major life changes like moves, divorces, new jobs, family, etc?

 

Do you tend to attract people who are in motion?

 

Can you observe, feel, sense the subtle energies of other people as they walk by you on the subway, in a passing car, on the dance floor or on the street?

 

Do you find that it’s easy to see people’s stories when they are near you?

 

Do you like to cook or bake or make concoctions for your bath or teas?

 

Do you like to write and talk to make things feel more real?

 

Do you speak your world and viewpoints into actuality?

 

Do you often find yourself in intense meditations?

 

Have you made huge life risks that have paid off in the end?

 

Do you often see the solution to other people’s problems?

 

Do you crave a sense of self through acting on your intuition and a perceived divine guidance?

 

Are you worn out more easily than others? Does your emotional stamina wane throughout the day?

 

Do you feel that you have a private life that’s difficult to relay to others or is hard to translate?

 

Do you have bouts of profound revelations for yourself and or others?

 

Do you believe in magical circumstances but also freewill?

 

Do you often find yourself helping others strategize?

 

Do you play with rocks and crystals, feathers, candles, bones, etc?

 

Do you keep a journal?

 

Do you create lists and find pleasure checking them off?

 

Do you consider yourself an artist, or surprise yourself by what you are able to create without giving it much thought?

Almost anyone can do intentional spellwork and become a spellworker, but some are more privy than others. If you answered yes to more than half of these questions, looks to me like you’re a natural.

 

If not, that's okay too, like any art form, spellwork can be learned through practice and study.

 

Working intentionally with spellwork is one of the most profound ways to realize the power of sensitivity and how to channel it. You can also gauge your sensitivity by how you respond to regular meditation, movement, crowds, and daily stimuli then recording it in a journal.

 

It can be difficult to know when to fire up the magic engine and when to shut it down, keep it at a steady pace, or slam on the gas. There are times when different speeds and intensities are appropriate, and I often turn to tarot as a form of spellwork for this reason, because it help you gauge how you are feeling in an acute way and develop an action plan moving forward.

 

One of the challenges with being a spellworker is how often you feel subtlety.

 

We know when people are being abused or taken advantage of. We feel the waste we create and the destruction we cause our earth by living here.

 

We feel burden, we acknowledge it when others do not, and we take it on, we internalize it.

 

We belittle our personal experiences because we are so consumed by those of others’.

 

We try to push the envelope by engaging in activities that make us feel wild.

 

We move or travel to fascinating places and get to know strangers from all backgrounds intimately.

 

We shape shift.

 

We find healthier ways of being people who experience and feel immensely and try to create a better world in doing so.

 

We sense in ways that other people choose not to, and it is our responsibility to transmute that energy into something more constructive than self-sabotage.

 

With spellwork, in order to combat the excess stimuli and reduce anxiety, we take deliberate action in focusing our sensitivity into defined goals and fantasies, then observe how our unique creative processes help us on our quests.

 

Pay attention to your actions and watch how often you create expecting a result... and how often you don’t expect anything to come of your actions.

 

What’s the ratio? Is it balanced? Could you be more decisive? How often do you set intentions and how do you set the tone for those intentions to flourish?

 

I wrote this to connect with other people focused on magic action and ethical intention setting. To continue the convo, email me at extraordinarytarot@gmail.com.

 

Happy spellcasting! 

 

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